Desire, if you let it, tells you everything.

This is not a wishlist in the ordinary sense. It’s a quiet archive — of texture, of mood, of longing. A study in what draws me in and what I draw into my world. Each item here is a suggestion, not a request. A glimpse, not a pitch. For those with the means and inclination to understand me more deeply, this is where you begin.

What Holds My Attention
Hush

The silence before something begins.

Drift

Conversations that wander.

Slowness

Beauty that reveals itself slowly.

Connection

The thrill of a shared secret.

Indulgences

Objects of sensation and ritual.

Perfume

B. Balenciaga Paris INTENSE (Vaulted)

Queen of the night. It bloomed once at midnight, then vanished. If you find it, I’ll never forget you.

Robe

Silk robe in ivory or dusk rose

To be worn without hurry. Best at twilight.

Tea

Ceremonial matcha set

Because precision is a form of affection.

Lingerie

Loveday London, Tisja Damen, Lise Charmel

For the eye, for the skin, for the space in between. 32C in bras, medium in panties, small everywhere else.

Experiences

Presence made tangible.

Sanctuary

Private spa sanctuary

Where time softens and voices lower.

Dinner

Dinner at a Michelin-starred restaurant

Your choice, my dress. A night meant to linger.

Movement

Sound baths, gentle yoga, embodied movement

Where sensation softens the mind, and something else emerges.

Escape

Desert escape or hidden forest cabin

Just us, the stars, and whatever finds us there.

Objects of Meaning

Things I carry. Things that carry me.

Journal

Hand-bound journal

Because ink holds what the voice cannot.

Film

Instax film (Mini or Square)

I like photos that blur at the edges — like dreams.

Locket

Antique locket or hidden-compartment keepsake

The psyche keeps its treasures tucked away. So do I.

Glasses

Mother-of-pearl opera glasses

For the theatre, and for watching a room from across it.

Books & Symbols

For the mind that lingers, and the soul that listens between the lines.

Briefly
Ocean Vuong

On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous

Devastating tenderness. A letter to a mother who could not read it.

Spell
David Abram

The Spell of the Sensuous

On listening to the world before it speaks.

Symbols
Taschen

The Book of Symbols

Every image, a dream I’ve already had.

Poetics
Gaston Bachelard

The Poetics of Space

The architecture of the soul. House as memory.

I like books that have lived — first editions, marginalia, the scent of old paper. The ones that linger.

And, since you got this far, you may take a little trip with me.

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